What do u look for in the opposite sex

Mooserocka · April 26th, 2006, 08:34 PM

When u are looking at a member of the oppisite sex, what turns u on. Please dont just say boobs and A$$. I am a male, I look for eyes and abs. How about the rest of u AN???

Samurai Drifter · April 26th, 2006, 08:38 PM

Boobs and ***.

Smith · April 26th, 2006, 08:50 PM

It's the eyes and smile ultimately for me. I like everything else. Plus-sizes are a definite no-no for me.

blackknight · April 26th, 2006, 08:51 PM

^2 Shallow.

The first thing that catches my eye is hair. I prefer brunettes.

Edit: Only now have I realized that I called the wrong person shallow. My apologies, Char.

minmae · April 26th, 2006, 08:57 PM

I look in a guy is his eyes, smile, and hair and not too thin or fat. Then I check if he has appeal.Oh-oh And let me add, his personality. I like nice, but not TOO nice. I hate the TOO NICE. Other than that, Heh.

Leader Desslock · April 26th, 2006, 09:03 PM

Intelligence and a sense of humor. Curiosity, open-mindedness and self-confidence. The desire to challenge herself, the courage to see where the road leads her. Honesty. The capacity to trust. Genuine compassion. Someone who genuinely sees good things in life, and that those things outweigh the bad. Someone who's literate, loves to travel off the beaten path and experience simple pleasures. Willing to try new things simply to have fun trying them. Someone who's independent, but who also enjoys sharing her life with others. Complex but uncomplicated.

Yes. Those are actually the things I look for* in the opposite sex.

*Thus far, unsuccessfully, I might add. Should I be looking for Boobs & *** instead? I see a lot of guys going for that, and they seem to have more luck. Or more dates, anyway.

Keldran · April 26th, 2006, 09:04 PM

Pulse .

Rurouni Saiyan · April 26th, 2006, 09:06 PM

I second Brother Samurai Drifter's sentiments as well.

In all honesty, though, I look for a woman who's kind, caring, feminine, and just an overall good human being.

minmae · April 26th, 2006, 09:10 PM

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Originally Posted by Leader Desslock

Intelligence and a sense of humor. Curiosity, open-mindedness and self-confidence. The desire to challenge herself, the courage to see where the road leads her. Honesty. The capacity to trust. Genuine compassion. Someone who genuinely sees good things in life, and that those things outweigh the bad. Someone who's literate, loves to travel off the beaten path and experience simple pleasures. Willing to try new things simply to have fun trying them. Someone who's independent, but who also enjoys sharing her life with others. Complex but uncomplicated.

Yes. Those are actually the things I look for* in the opposite sex.

Thus far, unsuccessfully, I might add. Should I be looking for Boobs & *** instead? I see a lot of guys going for that, and they seem to have more luck. Or more dates, anyway.

Awwww, Leader Dessock, you remind of this character in this movie (in the phillipines) That he said,(in tagalog of course) "... I like the kind of girls that desire to challenge herself, and has courage where the road leads her, where she isn't afraid...", I mean really 'AWWWW' that's so SWEET! You find that lover of your sooner or sooner.

VidelCoolGirl · April 26th, 2006, 09:14 PM

Hmm. Someone who can make me laugh first of all. I love a man who has a good sense of humor. One who has a nice smile, and who is a bit spontaneous. A guy who knows how to respect women of course, and a guy who digs anime. We could have anime sleepovers.

IAmTacoSalad · April 26th, 2006, 09:43 PM

I don't suppose I look for any one individual thing because that isn't how life works. You don't get individual characteristics, you get an entire package. If you are willing to go into a relashonship without first acknowledging this fact then I doubt it will work out. This mentality combined with the now commonplace apathy in this country is why there is such an exorbitant divorce rate.

The Million Dollar Prons · April 26th, 2006, 09:57 PM

I like my women like I like my coffe.

Big. Black. Loaded with cream.

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Originally Posted by videlcoolgirl

Hmm. Someone who can make me laugh first of all. I love a man who has a good sense of humor. One who has a nice smile, and who is a bit spontaneous. A guy who knows how to respect women of course, and a guy who digs anime. We could have anime sleepovers.

Replace "respect women" with "enjoying a home made dinner after coming home from work."

I think this MAY be the most sexist post I have ever made.

Samurai Drifter · April 26th, 2006, 10:13 PM

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Originally Posted by PronsAmuro

I like my women like I like my coffe.

Big. Black. Loaded with cream.

If I put quotes in my sig that would totally be there.

xxdreamergirlxx · April 26th, 2006, 10:20 PM

They have to be nice, sweet, and respectful, but with a little attitude mixed in. They shouldn't be too much of a pushover.

Physically I'm really not that picky. I've met gorgeous people I can't stand, and been attracted to people most wouldn't consider attractive, and a little bit of vice versa.

Ketaru · April 26th, 2006, 10:46 PM

After living in a mostly girls floor in a dorm, I have to say that, beyond looks and personality and humor and all that stuff that other people mention that the first criteria or requirement of the opposite sex I will look for...

...girls that are willing to leave their overblown drama at the door. What is especially nice are the girls that don't have that "You *****! I don't ever want to speak to you again even though I don't really mean it!" drama to begin with.

April 26th, 2006, 08:34 PM	#1
Mooserocka Banned Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: PHILLY Posts: 381	What do u look for in the opposite sex When u are looking at a member of the oppisite sex, what turns u on. Please dont just say boobs and A$$. I am a male, I look for eyes and abs. How about the rest of u AN???

April 26th, 2006, 08:38 PM	#2
Samurai Drifter Deadbeat translator Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: The Botanic Garden Posts: 2,757 Blog Entries: 2	Boobs and ***. __________________ "Form is emptiness... emptiness is form." -The Buddha

April 26th, 2006, 08:57 PM	#5
minmae Heller Join Date: Feb 2006 Posts: 403	I look in a guy is his eyes, smile, and hair and not too thin or fat. Then I check if he has appeal.Oh-oh And let me add, his personality. I like nice, but not TOO nice. I hate the TOO NICE. Other than that, Heh. __________________ "Think before you think." - sandara parks. "Pick up the goods, drop the bads, and fly around the world."-arnel igancio R.I.P. Michael Jackson, I love you. Last edited by minmae; April 26th, 2006 at 09:06 PM.

April 26th, 2006, 09:03 PM	#6
Leader Desslock Watching Reign: The Conqueror Join Date: Oct 2003 Posts: 13,546	Intelligence and a sense of humor. Curiosity, open-mindedness and self-confidence. The desire to challenge herself, the courage to see where the road leads her. Honesty. The capacity to trust. Genuine compassion. Someone who genuinely sees good things in life, and that those things outweigh the bad. Someone who's literate, loves to travel off the beaten path and experience simple pleasures. Willing to try new things simply to have fun trying them. Someone who's independent, but who also enjoys sharing her life with others. Complex but uncomplicated. Yes. Those are actually the things I look for* in the opposite sex. Thus far, unsuccessfully, I might add. Should I be looking for Boobs & ** instead? I see a lot of guys going for that, and they seem to have more luck. Or more dates, anyway. __________________ Desslock's opinion doesn't even factor in because he's played Devil's advocate for both sides of the argument... ~Chuchuchrain Last edited by Leader Desslock; April 26th, 2006 at 09:08 PM.

April 26th, 2006, 09:04 PM	#7
Keldran Now with 20% more sodium! Join Date: Jul 2002 Location: New Avatar? Took long enough... Posts: 50	Pulse . __________________ Lather, Rinse, Repeat O o o h . . . c o l o r s

April 26th, 2006, 09:06 PM	#8
Rurouni Saiyan Gotta stay fly. Join Date: Nov 2001 Location: The Jungle Deep. Posts: 1,507 Blog Entries: 4	I second Brother Samurai Drifter's sentiments as well. In all honesty, though, I look for a woman who's kind, caring, feminine, and just an overall good human being. __________________ Inside the Gamer's Studio Rurouni's LJ Swift as the wind. Silent as a forest. Fierce as fire. Immovable as a mountain. There are no pleasures in a fight but some of my fights have been a pleasure to win. -Muhammad Ali

April 26th, 2006, 09:14 PM	#10
VidelCoolGirl Original Alpha Female Join Date: Jan 2003 Location: Olympia WA Posts: 8,007 Blog Entries: 3	Hmm. Someone who can make me laugh first of all. I love a man who has a good sense of humor. One who has a nice smile, and who is a bit spontaneous. A guy who knows how to respect women of course, and a guy who digs anime. We could have anime sleepovers.

April 26th, 2006, 09:43 PM	#11
IAmTacoSalad Registered User Join Date: Jan 2006 Posts: 53	I don't suppose I look for any one individual thing because that isn't how life works. You don't get individual characteristics, you get an entire package. If you are willing to go into a relashonship without first acknowledging this fact then I doubt it will work out. This mentality combined with the now commonplace apathy in this country is why there is such an exorbitant divorce rate.

April 26th, 2006, 10:20 PM	#14
xxdreamergirlxx Osaka-chan Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: Escaping Reality. Posts: 201	They have to be nice, sweet, and respectful, but with a little attitude mixed in. They shouldn't be too much of a pushover. Physically I'm really not that picky. I've met gorgeous people I can't stand, and been attracted to people most wouldn't consider attractive, and a little bit of vice versa. __________________ ~The House Threads Live On~ ~-¤^Alicia^¤-~ ~I hope you die right now. Will you drink my chemical?~ This forum kicks @ss. <-clicky

April 26th, 2006, 10:46 PM	#15
Ketaru Ever-changing Avatars... Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: By the Kite-Eating Tree Posts: 1,161	After living in a mostly girls floor in a dorm, I have to say that, beyond looks and personality and humor and all that stuff that other people mention that the first criteria or requirement of the opposite sex I will look for... ...girls that are willing to leave their overblown drama at the door. What is especially nice are the girls that don't have that "You ****! I don't ever want to speak to you again even though I don't really mean it!" drama to begin with. __________________ Signature Picture I Would Use if Signatures Could Show Pictures... Last edited by Ketaru; April 26th, 2006 at 10:50 PM.*