Let's Be Friends.....

[Jia]

Heya all,

Jia has not posted much in a long long time. <_<

Jia Stuffs


I want to know if anyone here thinks its acceptable to call a person 6 times a day and not want something.

I believe I have acquired a new weirdo (one comes and one goes....<_<) who seems to think its friendly to call me every half an hour from 7:30 pm. Until about 10:30 - 11pm. Never says anything other than "uhhh and ummm" (yes. no actual conversation) and if I don't answer the guy sends text messages and voice mails with demands to know who I'm with, names of said people and where I am. <_< He thinks he's being "friendly". I've met the loser through friend groups and only twice but he seems to like calling me for some reason.

And this has been happening for nearly 2 1/2 months now. EVERY NIGHT.


How do I get rid of him without resorting to violence because if I see him again I am prepared to drop kick him.



Acting is almost done for the year.....it's depressing because I am somewhat wanting to continue with it. :(

But I still want to slap some of the weird ones silly...

[Haro!]

Jia, this isn't my style personally but do know many dudes that are like that: quite simply he wants to "hit that" or "tap that ***" or whatever the equivalent is in Austria. Sure he wants you to think he's being friendly but he wants some Jia. Oh and yes that guy is weird for doing that, best get rid of him quick. Your best bet is to first insult his manhood. If that doesn't work, then drop kick him. Don't let him "hit that" in the hopes of getting rid of him because he'll just beg for more later on. Kick him in the nuts. No, he might like that....

[Jia]

Yeah. It wouldn't seriously surprise me if that's what he wanted. He's too BETA male for my liking. <_<

But seriously 6 times a day! -_-

[Haro!]

Yeah. It wouldn't seriously surprise me if that's what he wanted. He's too BETA male for my liking. <_<

But seriously 6 times a day! -_-

Yeah totally seems like the type of dude that would beg for it, or get it out of pity.

[Jia]

He's fugly too. And 9 years older.

[Jo Sama]

I know it sounds crazy, but have you actually just flat out told him that you don't want him to call you every night? If he has a thing for you then his crush riddled mind will take a lack of negative response as a holy symbol that he is doing the right thing.

You could also get one of your friends to drop him a hint that you are not really into him.

If he really doesn't get the message, then there's always the classic restraining order to fall back on =D

^_^ Jo

[Soluzar]

As soon as I read the first message, before I scrolled down to Haro!'s post I was already convinced that this is a guy who's hitting on you, and has no idea how to go about it right. Even if he was your exact type, and ideal in every way... this approach would just make you think he was a creepy weirdo, so he desperately needs some help in his approach to women.

[The Million Dollar Prons]

Just out of curisoity, is he one of those guys who talks to you interview style?

"Hey what's your name?"
"Jia."
"Oh that's a lovely name, do you come here often?"
"Not really."
"Cool. What do you like to do?"
"I like to parasail."
"Cool, me too, can I have your email address?"

[tenshi_a]

Can't you just tell this guy to go away and stop wasting your time?

[SangoStrummer]

If he really doesn't get the message, then there's always the classic restraining order to fall back on =D

^_^ Jo

I'm liking this one.

Wow, this dude sounds like my mother <_<

But, seriously, this is not something you want to let go on. He may seem harmless, but my instinct is saying...not so much.

and if I don't answer the guy sends text messages and voice mails with demands to know who I'm with, names of said people and where I am. <_< He thinks he's being "friendly". I've met the loser through friend groups and only twice but he seems to like calling me for some reason.



*Warning Bells* He doesn't even really know you and he's already demanding to know who you're talking to, who you're with, where you are. Sister, he sounds like trouble. In his head I think he already believes you guys are together. Trust me, I know. Although I was married to my abuser...well, not the first one. Anyhoo, stay away! I'm thinking that a flat "*^#* off" is really not going to do the trick, though. Depending on where you are there are legal actions that you can take. Call your local domestic abuse shelter, they can tell you all you need to know.

(If you think I may be getting a little too serious about this, believe me when I say...I've been there. It scares me to think that most women don't take men like this seriously. I didn't an ended up in an abuse shelter. Just...be careful.)

[Shiroiyuki]

Uh....just get him blocked from your phone and tell him to **** off.

[EDIT]

OMG, forget everything I just said. I thought of something funnier.


Do the exact same thing to him, only in the mornings. Start at five in the morning and work your way up to about noon....

Then show up at 'random' where he's going to be and act surprised. Do this constantly.

Wear a lock of hair that matches his around your neck and make a shirt that has his name + yours enclosed in a heart.

See him across a busy mall/parking lot/crowded place and scream his name (in bloody murder). Wave and smile profusely. If he comes over say, 'Sorry, you didn't hear me.' If not, HAHAHAHA.

[SangoStrummer]

^ Hilarious!

.... until he cuts her up and puts her in soup v.v

[f2akid]

Or you can do it the simple and mature way and next time he calls you tell him that you're really not interested and you'd appreciate it if he'd stop contacting you. Personally I wish girls would take this approach more often, you lot unnecessarily complicate these things too often which just ends up in harsh words and sometimes tears (depending on the person and situation). Guys can get a hint but if you're avoiding letting him know that you're not interested because you don't want to hurt his feelings or something of the sort, the situation isn't going to fix itself.

I don't know about him wanting to 'tap that' if I'm honest. Sure it's a possibility but there's no absolute proof that he's just got sex in his mind. He's just never learnt how to approach girls and doesn't know how to decipher whether a girl is feeling him or no. Obviously he thinks that because you answer his phone calls and whatnot that there is a vague interest at the very least and wants to work on that in the hope that he can start building a good rapport with you. But obviously he's forgetting rapport is a two-way street and he needs to back off if he's not getting the same love back.

So in a nutshell, the best thing to do right now would be to let him know, on the level, that you don't like him in that way and you would appreciate it if he would stop calling you so much or at all (and start off with 'no offence' or 'I'm not trying to be rude but...'). If that fails then you can think about more extreme precautions such as drop-kicking or getting the law involved.

Hope this helps :).

[Caster13]

Does Australia have restraining orders? If not, nail him in the balls with a high heel next time you see him. And if that doesn't stop, call the cops.

^ Hilarious!

.... until he cuts her up and puts her in soup v.v

With some fava beans and a nice Chianti. Fffffffff.

[Trefellin]

Wait, I have an idea. Now this may seem crazy and radical at first but hear me out. What if you could, just saying theoretically to put the idea out there... What if there was a way to clearly send the message... Communicate if you will, to use technical terms, that you are not interested in him and do not wish to be contacted by or spend time with him? That would solve everything, right? Now we just have to think of a way to do that. That's the hard part so let's brainstorm...

Hurm...

Ummm...

Alpacas! Wait, no...

Hmmm...


Oh, I got it! Stop ****ing around and use your words like a big girl to clearly express your disinterest! :w00t:

My name is Trefellin. I help people.

[Caster13]

Hurm...

Ummm...

Alpacas! Wait, no...

Hmmm...

:lol: :lol: :lol:

[Jatz]

You didn't believe me when I said there was a stalker in the background of your picture did you.

Seriously though, this guy is a dangerous stalker and should be dealt with and not ignored for 2½ months.

First tell his to stop then block his calls. If he gets a new number then report him for harassment.

[goddessofanime]

Go ask him for some Kentucky Fried Chicken or whatever and give a fake address...


On a more serious note:

If he's been bugging you for two months, time for the cops to step in.

[Caster13]

Go Jia on him. You're devious and manipulative enough to figure something good out. Remember that lady you made get you KFC without having any idea where or who she was? Or send some of your guy friends after him.

EDIT: DAMMIT GODDESS!!!

[master terrence]

This sounds a little more serious than a "I wanna hit it" tool.

Maybe you should meet up with him, but bring a big or intimidating guy like a body builder, fighter, money maker, or some alpha male tool even and say that you are sort of in a relationship. That'll do it. He might be depressed afterward though.

[Leader Desslock]

...What if there was a way to clearly send the message... Communicate if you will, to use technical terms...

Alpacas! Wait, no...

My name is Trefellin. I help people.
:lol:



I agree with the general consensus that this guy has enourmous creepy stalker potential. We just had an Ivy-league grad student end up dead with her body stuffed in a wall, so you might want to take these sorts of people seriously.

When you send the Alpacas, rig them to detonate upon delivery of the message.

[Fobb]

Rather than drop kick, have you considered flying side kick? It looks cooler.

[Caster13]

Chase after him with your car if necessary, that's intimidating.

[Aragami]

Denounce him. Be direct and firm, but be delicate about not inflating the situation further.

[Spadesy]

Yeah. It wouldn't seriously surprise me if that's what he wanted. He's too BETA male for my liking. <_<

But seriously 6 times a day! -_-

HAHAH BETA male...now that's some good stuff.

But seriously, give it to him straight...just tell him he's calling you too much, and don't worry about whether or not you hurt his feelings in saying so...if his feelings get hurt, he is way too thin-skinned to handle you anyway. I mean, you apparently don't like the guy, so it should be easy on your part, right?

[Jia]

Will reply to all soon but yeah... I think he got my number off one of my friend groups. I was not happy about that. I actually have told him I am not interested in males in general and I only broke up with someone recently- which is true. I even thought that kinda spelt back off but nooo. When he kept calling me today I told him not to do it, thats when beta male kicked in and was angry that i rejected his "friendship". Also falcon punches would look fantastic or running him over. His screams will be music

[Midoriko87]

Beta Males are pretty badass in their own right, you should watch more National Geographic, Jia. I think the term you're looking for is 'Omega' or 'Psychopath' or 'Folk Musician,' they're interchangeable. *Nods*

[Jia]

Beta Males are pretty badass in their own right, you should watch more National Geographic, Jia. I think the term you're looking for is 'Omega' or 'Psychopath' or 'Folk Musician,' they're interchangeable. *Nods*

Lol theres this website about "nice guys". Does that count?

[The Million Dollar Prons]

So are you going to leave us in suspense or are you going to tell us which AN member is stalking you

[Jia]

So are you going to leave us in suspense or are you going to tell us which AN member is stalking you

Well I would prefer if it was ploughplough :(. The stalker is a religious dude. I thought he was originally talking to me to try convert me but I didnt think those types got all weird when they wanted a conversation.

[tenshi_a]

Oh it's a religious one? Those ones are... very good at believing that somebody loves them when in fact nobody does! Well, I guess that depends on which religion it is.

Also, religious people are good at believing things without question when there's no evidence to back up what they believe!

In any case, I'd say it's more of a reason to RUN AWAY.

I do wonder why you seem to attract so many of these crazies.

I mean, I'm crazy and I don't see how there could be any appeal in spending my time annoying you. No offense. :P

[The Million Dollar Prons]

Also, religious people are good at believing things without question when there's no evidence to back up what they believe!



Dianetics is a proven science.


Now if you'll forgive me I'm going to do that thing where I disquise myself as Jia Ren Qu's toilet.

Nah just kidding she's not Chinese enough for me. However, if she does that Lindsay Lohan thing and pulls her eyes back.

[Foppish Dandy]

Just tell him you're a Jehovah's Witness.

[The Million Dollar Prons]

^ Don't do that he'll ask you to come read scripture

[Caster13]

Just tell him you're a Jehovah's Witness.

This is a great idea. NOBODY likes them. Especially when it's 6:00 in the morning on a Saturday. And I'm sure that this guy has experienced that as well.

But if HE is a Jehovah's Witness, then get a guy friend to beat him to a pulp.

[RecentMidget]

if you know his general religion, say your the opposite.

EXAMPLE:

*ring*

Jia: Hello?

guy: Hey its me again. Say, are you religious?

Jia: why yes I am.

guy: would you like to go to church with me?

Jia: no thanks

guy: WELL WADAFRIK???!!!?!?!? Why not?

Jia: I can't for two reasons.
1: I worship the dark lord and master
2: people at church can sense me coming
3: because (some jibberish to make him think you be crazy and/or possesed)

guy*if still on phone*: you said three reasons. why add the third?

Jia: (best reason of all) because **** YOU!!!*hang up*

if this doesn't work the first time around, keep up with the crazy, stop for a day or two, and do it again.

worked for me on many a jehova peoples.

[KabukiSaMuRaI]

Heya all,

Jia has not posted much in a long long time. <_<

Jia Stuffs


I want to know if anyone here thinks its acceptable to call a person 6 times a day and not want something.

I believe I have acquired a new weirdo (one comes and one goes....<_<) who seems to think its friendly to call me every half an hour from 7:30 pm. Until about 10:30 - 11pm. Never says anything other than "uhhh and ummm" (yes. no actual conversation) and if I don't answer the guy sends text messages and voice mails with demands to know who I'm with, names of said people and where I am. <_< He thinks he's being "friendly". I've met the loser through friend groups and only twice but he seems to like calling me for some reason.

And this has been happening for nearly 2 1/2 months now. EVERY NIGHT.


How do I get rid of him without resorting to violence because if I see him again I am prepared to drop kick him.



Acting is almost done for the year.....it's depressing because I am somewhat wanting to continue with it. :(

But I still want to slap some of the weird ones silly...

That is correct, you have not posted here in a bit.

The calling is acceptable when it is mutually agreed upon that the lines of communication are open and work both ways.

Every half hour? What I want to know is how this person came to have your personal number. Apparently, you are somewhat popular with certain types of people. :p It seems that you have not made it clear that him calling you up every night is very disruptive and creeping you out.

Jia, forget the drop kick. My vote is for a flying arm bar. :lol:
But you might just derive more pleasure out of slapping the taste out of someone's mouth.

[DazzleKitty]

You've made it obvious to him that you simply NOT interested in him. Since he's not taking the hint and backing off, then I'd say go to the police or have some male friends pay him a visit.

And gohan, if you really do that to Jehova people, that is hilarious!

[Caster13]

I've heard of a guy who told them to wait a minute, closed the door, stripped down and then put on nothing but a tube sock, sat in a chair, and invited them in.

They've never come to his house since.

[goddessofanime]

I usually tell them I"m Jewish.

[Jia]

I've heard of a guy who told them to wait a minute, closed the door, stripped down and then put on nothing but a tube sock, sat in a chair, and invited them in.

They've never come to his house since.

Best Idea EVER. Except I don't own a tube sock.

[Haro!]

Best Idea EVER. Except I don't own a tube sock.

Wouldn't that make him want to come inside. Literally and figuratively.

[Caster13]

Wouldn't that make him want to come inside. Literally and figuratively.

:lol::lol: Hahaha!!

[Trefellin]

Best Idea EVER. Except I don't own a tube sock.

And you don't have any place to wear it. It's not supposed to be on your foot you know. :P

They'll just be like...

:O "You're nak-what the why are you wearing only one sock?" :huh:

[Caster13]

[COLOR="Green"]
And you don't have any place to wear it. It's not supposed to be on your foot you know. :P

I'm pretty sure she got that Trefellin.

[Jia]

^ Hilarious!

.... until he cuts her up and puts her in soup v.v

Noooo soup for you!

You didn't believe me when I said there was a stalker in the background of your picture did you.


Nope I didn't. Tis not funny when I have one.

Rather than drop kick, have you considered flying side kick? It looks cooler.

You make a valid point. *grin*


I mean, I'm crazy and I don't see how there could be any appeal in spending my time annoying you. No offense. :P

I have no idea either. I generally talk to everyone.

^ Don't do that he'll ask you to come read scripture

I was really suspecting that's what he wants but religion has never been mentioned.



And you don't have any place to wear it. It's not supposed to be on your foot you know. :P

They'll just be like...

:O "You're nak-what the why are you wearing only one sock?" :huh:

Distraction *thumbs* I still love the idea.

[Pessimist]

I want to know if anyone here thinks its acceptable to call a person 6 times a day and not want something.

No, and even if someone would want something, I'd say it is unaccetable.

And: http://www.sapolice.sa.gov.au/sapol/services/information_requests/restraining_orders.jsp

Usually such people stop and flee to their timbers when restraint orders are brought up to the dinner table.

[Jatz]

Doing all sorts of things might be fun but you might wind up hurt and nobody wants to see that. Call the cops and report him for harassment.